The Hand Ceremony

The Wedding Hand Ceremony is a visual, meaningful, and romantic ceremony used in many weddings today.  It is usually done within the wedding ceremony, before the ring exchange.

 

When the time comes for the hand ceremony, the minister will ask the bride to hold the groom’s hands, with her palms up so that she is able to see the gift that his hands are to her.  Then the minister shall say to the bride:

These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and vibrant with love, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as he promises to passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.

These are the hands that will work along side yours, as together you build your future, as you laugh and cry, as you share your innermost secrets and dreams.

These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy.

These are the hands that will comfort you in illness, and hold you when fear or grief engulfs your heart.

These are the hands that when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.

These are the hands that will tenderly lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into his eyes: eyes that are filled completely with his overwhelming love and desire for you.

Then the minister shall ask the groom to take the bride’s hands, with his palms up, so that he may see the gift that her hands are to him.  Then the minister shall say to the groom:

These are the hands of your best friend, smooth, young and carefree, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as she promises to passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.

These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through difficult times.

These are the hands that will comfort you when you are sick, or console you when you are grieving.

These are the hands that will give you support as she encourages you to chase down your dreams. Together as a team, everything you wish for can be realized.

Then the minister will pray, saying:

God, bless these hands that you see before you this day.  May they always be held by one another.  Give them the strength to hold on during the storms of stress and the dark of disillusionment.  Keep them tender and gentle as they nurture each other in their wondrous love.  Help these hands to continue building a relationship founded in your grace, rich in caring, and devoted in reaching for your perfection.  May [Groom] and [Bride] see their four hands as healer, protector, shelter and guide.  We ask this in Your Holy name, Amen.

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